Sunday, June 12, 2011

18 months



Last week Tag turned 18 months old and for some reason this seems like a milestone. On his 18 month day, he was very sick with something in his stomach and he threw up constantly for 3 days.  This was the first time in his life when he ever vomited, which seems a miracle in itself, and I felt so bad for the little man.  There was nothing I could do as he would stagger over to me and whimper as if he was hoping I could take this pain away from him.

We have been continuing our transient lifestyle as we wait for the home we are moving into. After spending the month of May in Park City, we stopped in to Joann's parents for some supplies and we headed south to St. George.  Typically, the weather in Dixie is nearing the 100's by this time of year, but it's been somewhat nice, only hitting the high 80's. We move into the new home on June 20, and it can't come soon enough.

Tag has been feeling better and only wants to go outside.  He loves to jump and climb, many times causing falls, but after a short cry, he's right back on the rocks again.  Tag also likes to try on hats wherever he goes. In fact, if someone we don't know is wearing a cool hat, Tag walks right up to them and motions for their hat, resulting in puzzled looks.  It's classic.  He has been awaking at 5:30 AM which has been very difficult on Joann, and this morning we let him cry until he fell back to sleep in an effort to get him sleeping a bit longer.

He is a very observant little boy and he notices things before I do, like airplanes, bugs, flowers and bikes. He is entering a frustrating phase where he knows exactly what he wants, but he can't yet communicate to us.  His favorite thing to say is "Mo", while giving us the sign language signal for "more." He wants to eat whatever we are having and has yet to get too picky.  Also, he is so good at taking his medicine it amazes me.

We just found out that Tag is going to have a little brother. The man who did the ultrasound initially said, "It's a girl" -- and I saw Joann light up.  Then upon further review, he said, "Oops, sorry, that is definitely a boy."  I about wanted to slug the guy for confusing Joann in that instant.  It would have been fun for her to have a little girl, but we are both extremely happy that Tag will have a little brother.

Here are some recent photos of our adventures:

A sick Tagman sleeping with a tired Dad.

Watching the French Open

Mom hangin' in Tag's tent.


Trying on hats

Eat your heart out, Sinatra

More hats

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Tag's Mom

We find ourselves on another adventure this Mother's Day, 2011.  We rented a condominium in Park City for a month as we wait for the house we are moving in to in Woodland Hills. The condo is very nice and nestled in a new community called Newpark where there are restaurants, shops and lots of nature to see.

This is the best part for Tag because since our February visit to South Padre Island, he's been mostly cooped up indoors while we wait for spring to arrive.  But the day after we arrived the sun came out and Tag has been in hog heaven walking around outside.  Every morning he seeks out his shoes and brings them to me and points outdoors. His ability to make friends remains unsurpassed. He walked right up to a group of twenty-somethings who were enjoying cocktails at a restaurant patio and ... well I'll let the photos do the talking:

Borrowing a complete stranger's hat and glasses.
Tag wouldn't let her put either the hat or glasses on for him.

The entire group laughing and enjoying the Tagman.
It's hard to see Tag's friendly nature get pushed around by bigger kids and even bigger dogs.  Quite often he walks quickly up to others only to be pushed by a lame bigger kid or jumped on by a dog.  Watching this happen reminds me of how, despite life pushing us around, it's important to choose to stay happy and positive.  So far, Tag remains undeterred by the negative behavior of others.

Joann is now 3 months into her pregnancy and she is quite tired and sickly. The thought of another little one entering our lives puts more pressure on me to get the business stabilized and growing, but I'm also required to take more of the burden of Tag.  Thus my hiatus from writing a blog post for a while.  I'm just tired.

Today is Mother's Day and Joann's son Michael drove down from Twin Falls to hang out with his Mom today.  It's amazing the love Joann has for her boys and when he arrived I had a little chat with him while she was upstairs about how excited she gets for his visits.  I asked him to remember how stoked he was when his Dad told him he was taking him to Pebble Beach to play golf.  I told Michael to remember how excited and filled with anticipation he was prior to that trip.  Then I explained that he was Joann's "Pebble Beach", so to try and give her some quality time this weekend.  He did a good job, making her a personalized card and hanging out most of the day today.

My Dad (and Babs) also came up to cook dinner for Joann.  We had a good time making dinner and eating the great recipes my Dad brought.  Dad brought Tag a "little tikes" basketball hoop -- the kind you can raise up and down.  I videoed Tag as he came into the room and we handed him the basketball.  I said, "Where's the basket?" and he looked around the room, saw this new hoop, and without hesitation ran over and dunked the ball.  He absolutely loves basketball and basketball hoops.  While in St. George a few weeks ago, we were at Green Valley's famous pool with many swimming pools, tons of people, volleyball, mini golf, etc.  I put Tag down amidst all this action, to see what he would be interested in, and he walked quickly over to the fence dividing the pool from the basketball court.  He grabbed the fence and yelled to me and pointed as if to say, "Dad! Come see the kids playing basketball!"  My Friend Matt Coombs asked me how I taught him to like basketball and I simply smiled and said that Tag came out that way.  This is a true statement.

I really don't think I could ask for a better mother for my son and new sibling on the way.  Joann's authentic love for her children is notable and there is no question her boys feel her genuine love and concern. Every time her boys come visit she has a list of menu items she is cooking in hopes they will feel this level of service shows her love for them. Each night when we pray, she expresses her love and concern for each son and asks for specific things they may be in need of and I feel envious they have such faithful prayers being uttered on their behalf!  I feel so lucky and blessed that Tag has Joann as a mother and I only need to work on letting her know how much I not only appreciate her, but admire her abilities.  Perhaps she will read this blog!

Here's a few recent photos of our adventures:

Tag visits his first pet store and intently looks at some fish.

Tag and I looking and listening to the Parakeet bird cage.

Tag points at the yellow bird.

So many fish!

Tag attempts to hug the fish tank.

Tag and Grandpa Brinton getting the grill ready for spring BBQing

Tag shows Grandpa his "ready stance" just before he practices jumping.

Reaching for the dice.

Rolling for a 6, baby! (while Grandpa looks on)

Mom, show me how to play!

Loving the spinning backgammon pieces.
Tag's favorite mask at the toy store.  He laughed and laughed when I put it on.
Tag LOVES bikes. He didn't want me to take him off this seat.
I caught Tag trying on this hat at the Nike Store. He had borrowed it from a stranger!

Cute Mom, happy boy.



Sunday, April 3, 2011

April...or is it?

All of my in-laws gathered at Momsie and Papaw's this weekend to watch LDS General Conference and to be together.  This gathering brings the pandemonium that only 11 grandkids under the age of 8 can bring.  Mostly, though, we enjoyed good food, several passionate discussions, laughs, and 12 inches of snow outside!  Seriously, it was 74 degrees on Friday then snowed 12 inches yesterday, and is supposed to reach 65 on Tuesday.  You just gotta love spring in Utah.

General Conference is a special weekend for members of our church.  During the two day conference, we get to hear from the Prophet of the Church and from many of the 12 Apostles.  Our church is organized in exactly the same way the Savior organized his church while on the earth with Prophets and Apostles called and set apart to lead and administer the affairs of what has become a worldwide organization with more than 14 million members.

During this conference, President Monson announced three new temples.  One in Idaho, Canada, and one under construction in Rome.  Now, 85% of all members are within 200 miles of a temple, where they can perform important ordinances.  This is an astonishing accomplishment.

We also enjoyed the Final Four on Saturday night.  Two mid-majors, VCU and Butler played in the first game and it was a great game.  I just love March Madness, where any team can get on a roll and make it to the dance.  Butler won and will play UConn for the championship Monday night.  I'll be wearing a Butler jersey!

Here are some photos from the weekend.

Joann, pregnant and bothered.

Tag climbing through a play tunnel.

Mitch Spence using the massage chair, after moving the chair dislodged a rib.

Joann, Liz and Nathan spreading rumors.

Liz and Nathan Kriser, with Anson enjoying lunch.

Timshel "Tank" Spence

Tag enjoying the effects of no naps and bigger cousins.

Tiffany Spence and son, James.

Happy Tiffany and Kaya Spence, the only granddaughter among 10 boys.

Nikki Kriser, Mr. Personality

Tank gives the Mile High Salute

A rare photo of Kian Kriser, caught in between creating two messes.

Liz cooking something that smelled delicious.

Momsie in her element with grandkids everywhere.

Baby Anson Kriser

Beautiful Grandmother, Marina Spence.

Kian sportin' the "Bless This House" necklace of shame after soiling his underwear.

Handsome brothers, Elijah and Nikki Kriser.

Tag, playing with Nikki Kriser.

Nathan Kriser.

Tag shows Nikki the magic spinning ball phenomenon.

Rare photo of Mitch Spence in the kitchen.

Proud Papaw (Charles Spence) with Kian Kriser.

Anson Kriser with his Dad, Nathan.

Tiffany Spence pondering life after earning her PHD.

Nikki Kriser pondering life after a sugar overdose.

Elijah Kriser with a Shirley Temple.

Gorgeous Mom, handsome son.